Gripping primers became popular because they solve a specific, common complaint: foundation that has visibly gone by lunchtime. The mechanism is simple and it is not optical. A grip primer leaves a slightly tacky polymer or gel layer on the surface, foundation adheres to that layer, and adhesion means less of it transfers onto your hands, your phone and your collar through the day.
That is a genuinely useful mechanism, and it is also commonly misapplied over 50. Grip is an adhesion fix. It is not a texture fix, a hydration fix or a line fix, and using it to solve one of those problems makes things worse rather than better.
When grip is the right answer: foundation that slides, foundation that has thinned or vanished by early afternoon, an oily T-zone that eats a base, or warm weather. In all four cases the foundation is moving when you did not want it to, and holding it still is the correct intervention.
When grip is the wrong answer: foundation settling into lines. People reach for grip here because the foundation has visibly moved into a crease, but the cause there is film thickness and flexibility, not adhesion — and a tacky layer under a foundation that is already too thick just fixes it in place in the crease. The why foundation settles guide explains that properly, and best foundation that doesn't settle is the page to read instead.
The other thing nobody mentions: grip makes foundation harder to blend. A tacky surface grabs product on contact, so the first place your sponge touches is where most of it stays. On a mature face, where you want a thin even film rather than a concentrated patch, that is a real cost. The workaround is a very thin primer layer, a pause until it is tacky rather than wet, and foundation applied in small amounts from the center outward.